fter Death: Inside Organ Donation
is
[Music]
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it was just a normal week night school
这只是一个正常的一周夜校之
night Z went to bed around about
夜 Z 大约
7:30 I'd been nagging her to get to bed
7:30 左右上床睡觉 我一直在催促她上床睡觉,
cuz it was late and she was trying to
因为已经很晚了,她正试图
get all her Christmas cards written for
得到她所有的东西 大约 9:00 左右,我妻子给学校班里的朋友写了圣诞贺卡,
her friends in her class at
school it was around about 9:00 and my

wife said s get that light off and go to
妻子说我们把灯关掉,去
sleep and she'd not long been in bed she
睡觉吧,她还没上床,
came running out of the bedroom
就跑出卧室
screaming saying she had a pain in her
尖叫着说她 她的
head and she was asking me to fix it
头很痛,她要求我修复它,
moments after that she collapsed
之后她
unconsciously my wife's
不自觉地倒下了,我妻子的
arms we raised her up to the local
手臂我们把她抬到了当地
hospital which is only a few minutes
医院,距离医院只有几分钟的路程,几
away within seconds there was 12 13
秒钟之内就有 12 13
people around Z trying to work out what
个人在 Z 周围试图工作
was
wrong 20 minutes later they sat us down
20 分钟后,他们让我们坐下来,
and said unfortunately there's a
说不幸的是
bleeding Z's brain and we're going to
Z 的大脑流血了,我们要
call for an air ambulance to fly down to
呼叫空中救护车飞往
ro children hospital for emergency brain
ro 儿童医院进行紧急脑部
surgery
手术,
you could hear the beeping of the
你可以听到机器的蜂鸣声,
machines and stuff that Z was on and at
Z 正在打开的东西,在
one stage the noise changed in the
某个阶段,机器中的噪音发生了变化,
machine and I just knew that did she
我只知道她
gone so when we arrived at the hospital
消失了,所以当我们到达医院时,
I took Z in for an operation to see if
我带 Z 去做手术,看看
there anything they could possibly
他们是否可以做任何事情
do 3 hours after they came out and said
3 几个小时后他们出来了,说
unfortunately the bleed is too
不幸的是流血太
severe and Kim and I just sat there with
严重了,金和我就坐在那里
for about 45 minutes holding
大约 45 分钟,抱着
0 she you she looked the same she um she
0 她你她看起来一样她嗯她
was a little daughter she a little girl
是一个小女儿她是一个小女孩
but she was dead
但她死了
[音乐] ] 祝
happy birthday to
you happy birthday dear
你生日快乐,亲爱的
lady happy birthday to you
女士,祝你生日快乐,
when we're in the hospital and we knew
当我们在医院的时候,我们知道
that Zade had died the only thing that
扎德已经死了,唯一
made us get through the next few hours
让我们度过接下来的几个小时的事情
was the fact that she was going to be a
就是她将成为一张
tissue and organ
纸巾 和器官
donor what are you doing
捐赠者你在做什么
Zade
Zade are you reading Barbie
扎德扎德你在读芭比娃娃是
yeah it's something you never ever think
的,这是你永远不会想到
will happen so when we registered as
会发生的事情所以当我们注册为
Stoners we never thought that it would
斯托纳时我们从未想过这会
be

her second
她的第二次
jump I would have been 10 when she
跳跃当她去世时我已经10岁了
passed
away she was always bubbly and excited
她总是
about

anything just weird walking into a room
任何奇怪的事情感到兴奋和兴奋,走进一个房间
or sitting the table even that normally
或坐在桌子上,即使通常
would set for 4: and now all of a sudden
是四点:现在突然就
it's
three when you went in hospital they
三点了,当你去医院时,他们
just cut the pajamas off
只是把睡衣脱下来
her they've got her smell
她他们有 她的气味
we never think 12 years ago would' be
我们从没想过 12 年前会
doing the campaigns we' be doing now
做我们现在正在做的活动,在
after uh my daughter Zade died the
我的女儿 Zade 去世后,
Australian 1 day team are promoting
澳大利亚一日团队正在
organ and tissue donation awareness by
通过
using zade's rainbow shoelaces these
使用 Zade 的彩虹鞋带(这些
were Z's baby shoes when she was small
是 Z 的婴儿鞋)来提高器官和组织捐赠的意识 2004 年,
and she actually had rainbow laces In
Her Shoes Z was the only child in
Z 是
Victoria in 2004 under the age of 16 to
维多利亚州唯一一个 16 岁以下的
be an organ and tissue donor it's a hard
器官和组织捐赠者,当她很小的时候,她的鞋子里实际上有彩虹鞋带。
conversation to have you especially
young guys you you feel that you're
我是
invincible and live forever and it's not
无敌的,永生的,这不是
something you really think about death
你真正认为的事情,死亡
is pretty Grim with the rainbow
是非常严峻的,彩虹
shoelaces and socks and everything we do
鞋带和袜子,我们
in my daughter's memory it's a bright
在我女儿的记忆中所做的一切,这是一个明亮
colorful
多彩的
day smells like
一天,闻起来就像穿着
boys with the socks you can see them a
袜子的男孩,你可以在一
mile away as you can tell it looks great
英里之外看到他们 你可以看出它看起来很棒
doesn't it you can certainly see which
不是吗你当然可以看到哪一个
te's your te hi girls uh for those of
是你的嗨女孩呃对于
you who don't know me my name's Kate and
那些不认识我的人来说我的名字是凯特我们
the whole reason we're doing this
rainbow round today is to raise
今天举办这个彩虹回合的全部原因是为了提高
awareness about organ donation um I need
认识 关于器官捐赠 嗯,我需要
a double transplant to save my life my
双重移植来挽救我的生命,我的
sister Kate she's been on the waiting
妹妹凯特,由于 1 型糖尿病,她已经在等待
list for 5 years now as a result of type
名单上五年了,
1 diabetes from when she was 4 years old
从她 4 岁时起,
she's not going to need those body parts
她就不再需要那些身体部位了
where she is now but there's other
是现在,但还有其他
people that do hi K are you going if I
人打招呼 K 如果我
don't get my transplant in the next 24
在接下来的 24 个月内没有得到移植手术,你会去吗
months I won't be here more than 150,000
我不会在这里 每年有超过 150,000 名
Australians die every year yet less than
澳大利亚人死亡,但只有不到
600 donate their organs and tissues it's
600 人捐献他们的器官和组织,这是
one of those things who wake up every
一个 那些每天醒来的人都会
day say is it my day for transplant I am
说,今天是我的移植日吗?我正
in stage there's no more stages I am
处于移植阶段,没有更多的阶段了,我已经是
terminal there's about a 15% chance of
末期了,大约有 15% 的机会
dying on the waiting
在等待名单上死亡,
list it's really
scary when she was 6 and a half she
当她六岁半的时候,她就
turned to Mom one day and said mom if
变了,这真的很可怕 有一天我对妈妈说,妈妈如果
anything happened to me I think I might
我出了什么事,我想我可能
want to Don up my organs to other kids 7
想把我的器官捐献给其他孩子。7个
months later she donated both the
月后,她把器官的两个角都捐给了两个
corners to two four-year-old children
that had ey problems since birth she
自出生以来就有眼部问题的四岁孩子,她
donated both the kidneys to a
捐出了两个器官 她为一位
middle-aged mom someone in the' 40s that
40 多岁的中年母亲捐献肾脏,她在
was on Dallas for 6 years she donated a
达拉斯生活了 6 年;她
liver to an 8-year-old girl she donated
为一名 8 岁女孩捐献了肝脏;她
a heart valve to a newborn baby that
为一名
needed open heart surgery and if Zade
需要进行心脏直视手术的新生儿捐献了心脏瓣膜,如果扎德
didn't die at that time that little baby
没有捐献的话 那个时候那个小宝宝
may not have lived what Z gave in death
可能还没有死,Z在死亡中所给予的东西
was what we might not ever do when we're
是我们活着时可能永远不会做的事情,
alive and that is save someone else's
那就是拯救别人的
life thanks guys
生命,谢谢大家
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[音乐],
w i Ved so bad this
这太糟糕了
morning I've been vomiting for 15 days
早上,我已经呕吐了 15 天,
now so you told D that to you no I told
所以你告诉 D,不,我告诉
him I broke down today I I've had enough
他我今天崩溃了,我已经受够了,
and I said I said to them I'm at a point
我说我对他们说我
now where I want to say don't even do
现在正处于一个我想说的时刻 甚至不做
the dialysis and just then go I'm over
透析,然后就走吧,我已经结束了,我什至
it I'm that's not even up for
不需要
consideration I know you got to let me
考虑我知道你必须让我
then and say these yeah I know but I
然后说这些,是的,我知道,但我
just don't like to hear it that's all
只是不喜欢听它
yep I'll just go top of the tree I used
是的,我会爬到树顶上,我
to be so optimistic and it's really hard
曾经很乐观,但这真的很难,
because I always put on this act that
因为我总是表现出
I'm okay with everything I know you've
我对一切都很好,我知道你
got a vent and everything I just it's
有一个发泄口,我只是这
very hard to hear you say those words
很难 听到你说这些话,
that's all Mom it's been 5 years it
妈妈,已经过去了 5 年了,
comes point where you have to go quality
到了你必须注重质量而不是
over quantity and it comes a point where
数量的时候了,到了
you had enough I know you've had enough
你受够了的时候,我知道你已经受够了,
but you've got to keep fighting you've
但你必须继续奋斗。” 我
just got her for who who am I fighting
刚刚得到了她,我现在为谁而战,
for now you no I'm not I'm telling you
你不,我不是,我现在告诉你,
now I'm not today was a bad day I feel
我不是,今天是糟糕的一天,我
like I'm at breaking point and I'm only
觉得我正处于崩溃的边缘,我只是在
fighting because I don't want to be a
战斗,因为我 不想成为一个
coward and let them down I'm honestly
胆小鬼,让他们失望,老实说,我
not fighting for me and I haven't been
没有为自己而战,我已经有
fighting for me for about 18 months
大约 18 个月没有为自己而战了,
okay how much do you want that
好吧,你想要多少
you yeah
你是的
I feel so bad for
我觉得 对你来说太糟糕了,
you he buried his mom 2 years ago he
他两年前埋葬了他的妈妈,
buried his Nan a year ago he cared for
一年前埋葬了他的奶奶,他照顾
them both and now he's got a sick
他们俩,现在他有一个病入膏肓的
terminal
girlfriend why you shaking
女朋友,为什么你会颤抖,
that is why I put off for 5 years being
这就是为什么我推迟了五年和
with him because I didn't want to be
他在一起,因为我没有' 我不想成为
another burden I hate that he has to
另一个负担,我讨厌他
help me put my bra on every morning I
每天早上必须帮我穿上胸罩,我
hate that he has to clean my sick
讨厌他必须清理我生病的
buckets or rub my legs or I hate that
水桶或揉我的腿,或者我讨厌
the first conversation that all his
他所有
friends say on the phone is how's
朋友在电话里说的第一句话是 凯蒂怎么样,
Kitty we have days where I have to beg
我们有些日子不得不求
her to keep
她继续
breathing I've been in that hospital
呼吸,我一直在那家医院
holding her hand she's begged the
握着她的手,她求
doctors to let her go and I've got angry
医生让她走,我很生气,
and said you're not going anywhere cut
说你哪儿也去不了,把
it out and it's not an option and don't
它剪掉吧 这不是一个选择,
even think about it
甚至不要考虑它,
um there's been many of those days and
嗯,这样的日子已经有很多了,
they're the days
它们是他们
that they get
到达
there I think sometimes about
那里的日子,我有时会想
withdrawing from dialysis one of my
退出透析,我的一位
close friends that was on the machine
密友在机器上,
she

withdrew not that long ago and sometimes
退出了不是那样 很久以前,有时
you feel like there's not really a light
你会觉得隧道尽头并没有真正的光明,
at the end of that tunnel you feel like
你会觉得
it's just a tunnel I can see why people
这只是一条隧道,我能明白为什么人们会
withdraw from it and it wouldn't take
退出它,而且不会花
long I mean it's apparently it's a
很长时间我的意思是,这显然是一个
reasonably peaceful death because you
相当平静的死亡,因为 你
basically drown in your own lungs but um
基本上是被自己的肺淹死了,但是嗯,
I don't know I just get fluid overloaded
我不知道,
on a Sunday night sometimes and I just
有时周日晚上我会液体过多,我只是
have trouble breathing and and it feels
呼吸困难,这对我来说感觉
horrific to
很可怕,
me hi it's shobon from the tissue typing
嗨,我是
Lab at the Royal Brisbane I've just
皇家布里斯班 I 组织分型实验室的 Shobon 刚刚
emailed you through the list of
通过电子邮件向您发送了我们今天收到的
potential recipients for the donor we've
捐赠者的潜在接收者名单,
had
today hello wood you speaking hi Peter
你好,伍德,你好,彼得,
how are you yeah good thanks may have
你好吗,是的,很好,谢谢,可能已经
found a for you oh really the match is
找到适合你的了,哦,真的,匹配
looking pretty good mate oh what are you
看起来很不错,伙计,哦,你是谁 现在
in bit of trouble at the moment I've
有点麻烦,我
just come off dialysis now yeah can you
刚刚结束透析,是的,你能明白吗,是的,
get yep you come now I'm good to go yeah
你现在就来吧,我很好,
I can be there soon it's your lucky
我可以很快就到了,这是你的幸运
dayet oh my God are you serious
日哦,我的上帝,你是认真的吗
am so it's going to be a um of a roller
我是如此 在接下来的几周里,这将是一次过山车之旅,
coaster ride for the next few weeks
doing it for a third time quite a
这是第三次,这是一项相当
complex business so we're not expecting
复杂的工作,所以我们并不指望
it's going to work straight away often
它会立即发挥作用,通常
happens when the kidneys have to be
发生在肾脏必须被
stored and shipped to a long distance
储存和运送到 距离很远,
only about one and third of them are
只有大约三分之一的人
going to work straight away so it's
会立即起作用,所以
likely you might have to stay on some
很可能你可能需要继续进行
dialysis yeah all fingers crossed
透析是的,祈祷吧,
eh when I was 11 my kidneys failed and I
嗯,当我 11 岁时,我的肾脏衰竭了,我
ended up in hospital it turned out that
最终住进了医院,事实证明,
I had this autoimmune disease and it
我 患有这种自身免疫性疾病,这
means your body's immune system is
意味着你的身体的免疫系统
attacking itself basically probably 19
基本上正在攻击自己,大概是 19
20 I had my first train transplant and
20 我做了我的第一次火车移植,但
that just didn't work I was in hospital
没有成功 我在医院里
quite ill for the whole year that I had
病了整整一年,
that and then I ended up back on
然后我结束了
dialysis in 2001 I had my second
2001 年,我再次接受透析治疗,我的第二次
transplant never worked really properly
移植手术从未真正发挥过作用,
but it kept me off the machine for um
但这让我在
around about 10 years and in that time
大约 10 年的时间内没有使用机器,在那段时间
you know I met a girl and had a
你知道我遇到了一个女孩并建立了
relationship and I got to uh be a bit
关系,我必须呃变得
normal there for a little while so the
正常一点 在那里待一会儿,这样
surgeon will be lat to have a look at
外科医生就会来看看
your belly and try and decide where he
你的腹部,并尝试决定将
wants to put the kidney
肾脏放在哪里,
and uh we wait thein's due to arrive
呃,我们等待他们
from Brisbane about
将于 9:30 左右从布里斯班抵达,
9:30 okay yeah how long to go you have
好的,是的,要走多长时间?
your R transplant done there uh my first
你在那里完成了R移植,呃,我的第一次移植
one was about 28 years ago all right
是在大约28年前,好吧,
because I've already had two I've got
因为我已经有两种了,我有
antibodies everybody has their own
抗体,每个人的系统中都有自己的
antibodies in their system but I've got
抗体,但我有我
the antibodies of myself and two other
自己和另外两个肾脏的抗体
kidneys so it's going to be a bit of a
所以这将是一场更
harder match and uh my doctor said I've
艰难的比赛,呃我的医生说我只有
only got really like a one in five
五分之一的
chance of living past 12
机会活过 12 个
months hello sweetie how are you can I
月你好亲爱的你好吗我可以
go St here mama hello mate I stay here
去圣这里妈妈你好伙计我留在这里
hey

Noah hello little
诺亚你好小
man more day's been great
伙计,今天真是太棒了,
thanks I'm getting so tired I'm barely
谢谢我太累了,我几乎
able to keep my eyes open a thank
睁不开眼睛,
you night good night darl thank you love
谢谢你,晚安,亲爱的,谢谢你,
love you to though thank you for
爱你,尽管谢谢你所做的
everything see you
一切,再见,再见 很
bye just
beautiful I might see him grow up to be
漂亮,我可能会看到他长大到现在有
the age that car is now you know the
汽车的年龄,你知道
think that I might see him go through
我可能会看到他
school and go through high school and
上学、高中、
friends and camping and all that kind of
朋友、露营以及所有
thing I never thought I'd see that you
我从未想过会看到的事情 你
know
知道
Levi was a Christmas Eve baby and then
利维是个圣诞夜的婴儿,
about 9 days old we noticed that he was
大约 9 天大的时候,我们注意到他
puffing up in his eyes and we thought
的眼睛浮肿,我们认为
that it might have been an allergy or
这可能是过敏或
something like that so I called his dad
类似的原因,所以我打电话给他的爸爸,
and I said look I think I'm just going
我说看 我想我只是要
to take him to the hospital what do you
带他去医院 你
reckon he goes yep let's get this sorted
认为他会怎样 是的,让我们一劳永逸地解决这个问题,
once and for all and that was the day
那天
our lives literally flipped upside
我们的生活彻底颠倒了
down Levi is now 17 months old and we've
利维现在已经 17 个月大了,我们 “
been coming to Mish children's for for
已经连续 16 个月来米什儿童医院了,
16 months
straight he comes in for regular
他每周
infusions at least twice a
至少定期输液两次,
week his kidneys don't keep protein
他的肾脏无法将蛋白质保留
within the blood so he urinates it out
在血液中,所以他会通过尿液排出体外,
so now he has regular infusions to bring
所以现在他定期输液,将
the fluid back into the
液体带回体内。”
bloodstream next Monday he will actually
下周一的血液他实际上将
be having his first major
进行他的第一次
surgery which will be uh where they
大手术,这将是呃,他们会
remove a kidney
切除一个肾脏,那
what about the blue one this is the
蓝色的那个呢,这是
first big step towards the transplant so
朝着移植迈出的第一步,所以
it's really
这真的是,嗯,
um it's just yeah really
只是是的,真的很
scary good day I'm Bill mly nice to meet
可怕,美好的一天,我 比尔很高兴见到
you how you going a thank you all right
你,你怎么样,谢谢,好吧,
how are things going yeah not too bad
事情进展得怎么样是的,还不错,
yeah you've just seen the surgeon yes
是的,你刚刚看过外科医生,是的,
Levi needs to grow a bit more there's
利威尔需要再长一点,有
there's enough room for the kidney to go
足够的空间让肾脏
in but it'll be pushing it so he's going
进入,但它 会推动它,所以他
to have a kidney taken out yes soon yeah
很快就会取出一个肾脏,是的,是的,
so did he also have a look at you from a
所以他也从外科角度看你了吗?
surgical point of view no he just asked
不,他只是问我们
us which one's donating and we kind of
捐的是哪个,我们
just went well are you a smoker yes and
进展顺利,你是吗? 吸烟者 是的,
are you a smoker no currently smoking
您是吸烟者吗 否 目前吸烟 是的,
yes and do you drink alcohol no none
您喝酒吗 没有
none so one of the non-negotiables for
没有 所以
our unit is quitting smoking to be a
我们单位不可协商的事项之一是戒烟成为
donor in us have you ever had problems
我们的捐赠者 您是否曾经有过
with blood pressure no you said there
血压问题 否 您说过
were no kidney problems in the family
家族中是否没有肾脏问题 家族
anything else that runs in the family
中是否存在任何其他遗传问题
most of the families died of old age so
大多数家族都因年老而去世,
so with the tissue typing what they look
因此通过组织分型,他们所观察的
at essentially is six antigens and see
基本上是六种抗原,看看它们
whether they match between you and Levi
是否与您和李维相匹配
what is good for Levi about your tissue
什么对李维有好处 关于你的组织
typing is that your six each one match
分型,你的六个都与李维相匹配,
Levi that's good so the implications for
这很好,所以
that are that if you donate to him then
这意味着,如果你捐献给他,那么
he's unlikely to form antibodies then
他不太可能形成抗体,那么
rejection is much less likely than if he
排斥的可能性比他
gets a kidney from his dad where he does
从他父亲那里得到肾脏的可能性要小得多。
have differences uh so so it's good in
有差异呃所以这样很好
that way
so much of cystic fibrosis is having to
所以囊性纤维化必须
really watch your body and know what
真正观察你的身体并知道
your lungs are doing and so you for me
你的肺部在做什么,所以你对我来说
you have to become very Vigilant to your
你必须变得非常警惕 你的
body's
身体
condition and how easy that is for me to
状况,我很容易在
sleep over to be really anxious and
睡觉时感到非常焦虑和
Hyper Vigilant and that's and it feels
高度警惕,这感觉
very self-obsessed and very
非常自我迷恋,非常
self-absorbed especially not being out
自我陶醉,尤其是现在没有
of work
失业,
now Christ it's alling about me and it
上帝啊,这都是关于我的,
must I think [\h__\h] I must be so boring
我必须这样做 想他妈的我一定很无聊
cry know all I'm doing is coughing and
哭知道我所做的就是咳嗽和
banging on about coughing either
敲打咳嗽要么
coughing or talking about it like
咳嗽要么像狗屎一样谈论它
[\h__\h] so boring yeah but it is boring at
太无聊了是的但它很无聊
actually I was 2 years old when I was
实际上我被诊断出时才两岁
diagnosed I grew up hearing oh you'll be
我从小就听着“哦,你会
dead at

21 but I was quite lucky cuz I stayed
21岁就死”,但我很幸运,因为我
well very young so I went to UNI and
很小的时候就活得很好,所以我去了大学
worked and deliberately had a child very
工作,并故意在很小的时候就生了一个孩子,这样
young so that I could spend as much of
我就可以和
my life with her as possible for her
她一起度过一生的大部分时间。 对她来说这可能
it's normal it's what she grew up with
是正常的,这是她成长过程中的情况,她
it's what she knew when she was a baby
小时候就知道,
she'd be in hospital with me growing up
她会和我一起在医院里长大,
there for some parts of
有些时候她会在那里长大,
it so my lung function has had like a
所以当我输掉比赛时,我的肺功能有过
few dips well when I lost about 20%
几次下降。 大约 20%
really rapidly that was really scary and
很快,这真的很可怕,
we thought that's when we started
我们认为那是我们开始
talking about transplant cuz you least
谈论移植的时候,因为
when You' got 50% chance of lasting 2
你至少有 50% 的机会持续 2
years pretty much
年,几乎
there are 1,600 Aussies on our organ
donation waiting list at any time but
任何时候都有 1,600 名澳大利亚人在我们的器官捐赠等候名单上,但
we're still only 20th in a list of
我们 按捐赠率计算,在国家名单中仍仅排名第 20 位,
countries by donation rates well behind
远远落后于
Spain Croatia and Belgium all of which
西班牙、克罗地亚和比利时,所有这些国家
have an opt out system which research
都有选择退出系统,研究
shows leads to higher transplant rates
表明,该系统会导致更高的移植率,
so with the opt out system getting
因此,
positive results overseas should
如果
Australia make the
澳大利亚做出
switch across Victoria live with Tom
转变,选择退出系统将在海外取得积极成果 现在,我和汤姆·埃利奥特 (Tom Elliot) 一起生活在维多利亚州
Elliot 24 to4 now I'm not the only one
24 比 4 我不是唯一一个
who thinks this but I honestly believe
这么想的人,但我真诚地相信,
that with organ donation in this country
在这个国家,我们目前的器官捐赠方式是
we have it around the wrong way at the
错误的,
moment if you wish to donate your organs
如果你想捐赠你的器官,
you have to make that election before
你必须这样做 在你死之前做出选择,
you die it is opt in joining me in the
选择加入我的
studio now is the father of a little
工作室现在是一个
girl called Zade Alan Turner good
叫扎德·艾伦·特纳的小女孩的父亲下午好
afternoon afternoon Tom obviously it's a
下午汤姆显然这是一个
very emotive issue the whole idea of opt
非常情绪化的问题选择
out versus op in there's a number of
退出与选择的整个想法有很多
issues Tom I think firstly if you look
汤姆 我认为首先如果你看看
at the leading countries around the
世界上
world uh out of the top 36 25 of those
排名前 36 的主要国家,其中 25 个
countries follow the opt out system the
国家遵循选择退出系统
top five countries follow the opt out
前 5 个国家遵循选择退出
system I think if you're in a situation
系统 我认为如果你处于这样
that you could do something to help
的情况 可以做一些事情来帮助
improve the donation rate and this is no
提高捐赠率,这不是
Silver Bullet but it will allow the
灵丹妙药,但它将允许
conversation to 18 million Australians
与 1800 万澳大利亚人
to have to have a conversation do you or
进行对话,
don't you want to be an organ and tisue
donor if you don't sign a form to opt
如果你不想成为器官和组织捐赠者,你是否愿意? 不要签署选择退出表格
out Spain is the world leader when it
comes to organ and tissue donation for
就西班牙每百万人的器官和组织捐献而言,
every million people in Spain 36 people
西班牙处于世界领先地位
people donate in Australia for every
澳大利亚每百万人捐献器官和组织的比例为 36 人
million we get less than 17 people that
我们的捐献人数还不到 17 人,
donate so half the rate is what Spain
所以西班牙的捐献率只有一半
does just welcome to Barcelona so we're
欢迎来到巴塞罗那,所以我们
thinking let's go out we look at other
想出去看看
countries around the world and we look
世界上其他国家,看看
how they are successful in increasing
他们如何成功地增加
organ and tissue donation so my name is
器官和组织捐赠,所以我的名字是
Charlotte I'm one of the special
夏洛特,我是
donators for organ donation and I'm
器官捐赠的特别捐赠者之一 我
based in South Wales in the UK and prior
住在英国南威尔士,
to me starting my post I did a
在开始发表文章之前,我写了一篇
dissertation looking at whether the opt
论文,研究选择
out system could improve our organ
退出系统是否可以提高我们的器官
donation rates organ donation in UK
捐赠率 英国的器官捐赠
relies on family consent and sadly there
依赖于家人的同意,遗憾的是
are three to four patients are dying
有三到四个人 每天都有患者在
every day while waiting for a transplant
等待移植期间死亡
about 600 patients are dead because of a
约 600 名患者因
lck of organ 27,000 patients are in the
器官缺乏而死亡 27,000 名患者在
waiting list for transplantation and
等待移植名单中,
unfortunately every day 10 of them die
不幸的是每天有 10 名患者死亡
we have an OP out system since 1979
我们自 1979 年以来就有 OP out 系统
we're an opted in country we have an opt
选择退出的国家/地区 我们有一个选择
out system Pres concern we have now an
退出系统 请注意,我们现在
optin sh system in the Netherlands and
在荷兰有一个选择退出系统,
we want to change to an opt out and you
我们想要更改为选择退出,而您
want to change to opt out we are an opt
想要更改为选择退出 我们是美国的一个选择
out uh country in the US all states have
退出国家/地区 所有州
the designation for organ donor uh
available on your license in Australia
在澳大利亚,您的许可证上有器官捐献者的称号,
we dropped the tick in the box and the
我们多年前就在方框和许可证中去掉了勾号,
license many years ago and there's only
one state actually runs with that now
实际上只有一个州执行此规定,现在
we're the second most effective country
我们是世界上第二个最有效的国家,
in the world uh right now we're at about
呃,现在 我们有大约
29 donors from million population the
29 名捐赠者,来自 100 万人口,
most important thing is not when you are
最重要的不是你何时
asking for the donation the most
要求捐赠,最
important thing is how you face the
重要的是你
family from the very beginning of the
从故事一开始就如何面对这个家庭,
story we care for the family we help
我们关心这个家庭,我们帮助
them understand and uh what that person
他们理解和理解 呃,那个人
would have liked to do what I've seen
会喜欢做我所看到的事情,
when I speak with families that had said
当我与那些对
yes or no to organ Nation they feel a
组织国家表示同意或反对的家庭交谈时,他们感到如释重负,因为他们
relief that they don't have to make a
不必做出
decision they just have to confirm the
决定,他们只需要确认他们
wish of the disease and it's not about
的愿望 这种疾病与
them it's about the loved one that has
他们无关,而是与患病的亲人有关,
diseased so we don't let's say
所以我们不会说
impose the option of Oregan donation but
强加俄勒冈捐赠的选择,但
we invite people to participate of
我们邀请人们参与
something that we believe is is good as
我们认为对
for our society because of course we
我们的社会有益的事情,因为我们当然
save lives we improve the quality of
拯救生命,我们改善了
life of many people but organ donation
许多人的生活质量,但器官捐赠
also um is an expression of the kind of
也是我们社区的一种表达,所以
community that we are so organ donation
器官捐赠
goes on saving lives it it's it makes us
继续拯救生命,它让我们
be a better
成为一个更好的
Society I don't think op out is a Magic
社会,我不 认为 op out 是一颗神奇的
Bullet but what it does it changes the
子弹,但它的作用改变了人们对生命
focus on the subject everyone says at
尽头的主题的关注,
the end of life bang you know to make
砰,你知道要
donor and I'm going to donate to save
捐赠,我将捐赠以拯救
someone else's life it's part of the
别人的生命,这是
culture as it is in Spain so we need to
文化的一部分,因为它 在西班牙,所以我们
change the system now so our kids that
现在需要改变系统,这样我们
need transplants another 10 years get
需要再过 10 年进行移植的孩子会
them automatically we hope
自动获得它们,我们希望
nice
漂亮的
shorts shorts
短裤短裤
this
这个
C need to give you a big big kiss before
C 在我进去之前需要给你一个大大的吻,
I go in can you
可以吗?
you be
你要
bright love you
聪明,爱你,
Bo
波,
okay get to start crying
好吧,开始哭泣吧
kissy can you tell me what I'm having a
吻你能告诉我我还剩下什么吗
left oh my
哦,我的
goodness my ky's coming out that's all I
天哪,我的凯要出来了,这就是我
can say right now
现在能说的
what's Nana doing is Nana being silly
娜娜在做什么,娜娜很傻
yep I'm donating my kidney to my son
是的,我今天要把我的肾脏捐给我的儿子,
today you pop that off yeah pop it
你把它关掉是的,把它
off two-year-old kid should not know how
关掉,两岁的孩子不应该知道如何
to do this stuff oh I know worst case
做这些事情哦,我知道最坏的
scenario just take what you need donate
情况,只要拿走你需要的,捐出
as many I know I know I know I'm down
我知道的尽可能多的东西我 知道我知道我很沮丧
take care of we
照顾好我们
will

will she's giv you life twice now mate
她会两次给你生命吗伙计
I true for it
我真的很感谢,
thanks all right hold that
好吧,
too I'm a transplant surgeon so this is
我也是一名移植外科医生,所以这就是
what I do but it surprises you every
我的 做,但每次都会让你感到惊讶
time what people do for one another what
人们为彼此所做的事情
friends do for each other what family
朋友为彼此做的事情 家庭
members do for each other it's not a
成员为彼此做的事情 这不是一个
small operation and this has long-term
小手术,这会产生长期
consequences and it just makes the
后果,只会让
operation just that little bit more
手术
stressful because she's doing it for the
压力更大一点 因为她这样做是为了
benefit of somebody else so it's an
别人的利益,所以这是
operation that she herself does not need
她自己不需要
to have so you want everything to go
做的手术,所以你希望
well for the sake of her as well as the
为了她和
sake of her
她的
son and put the Jael P back on make sure
儿子一切顺利,然后把 Jael P 回来确保
she's
okay it's nice kidney that
没事,肾脏很好,
one that went well very happy with that
进展顺利,对此非常满意,
so hopefully it'll work well in Levi
所以希望它能在利维发挥良好作用,
my
我的
baby thank you thank you my
宝贝,谢谢你,谢谢你,我的
baby uh no I just want to make sure that
宝贝,呃,不,我只是想确保
whatever is coming out of the vein is
无论发生什么 静脉外很
clear which it is let's do it got now
清楚,我们现在就做吧
785 6274
785 6274
I'm starting to attach his Alice's
我开始把他爱丽丝的
kidney onto him
肾脏接在他身上
now okay the arterial clamps
现在好吧,动脉夹
please so far so
请到目前为止一切
good that's the kidney in here and we're
顺利,这就是这里的肾脏,我们
about to take the clamps off which means
即将取出 夹子脱落,这意味着
his blood will go into Alice's
他的血液将进入爱丽丝的
kidney here we
肾脏,我们
go clamp's coming off
开始吧,夹子脱落
and you can see the change in color of
,你可以看到肾脏颜色的变化,
the
kidney that looks
看起来
nice I think that went well the kidney
不错,我认为进展顺利,肾脏
looks very nice
看起来非常好
I was so up my eyes this morning when I
我太兴奋了 今天早上,当我
saw my son standing there this
看到我儿子站在那里的时候,我很
morning made my
day hey sweetie how are
开心,嘿亲爱的,你好吗,
you
hello I don't think many people have
你好,我认为没有多少人接受
three kidney transplants no that's right
三颗肾移植,不,是的,
I still can't believe it so is the
我仍然不敢相信,所以
kidney cuz it came from far away so is
肾也是因为它来自远方 离开所以
it working like kind of like they said
它的工作方式就像他们说的
it takes a few days to wake up I'm
需要几天才能醒来我现在正在
putting out um at the moment um I think
发布嗯我认为
it's putting out about over 20 M an hour
它本身每小时发布超过20M
by itself it's probably going better at
它在
this stage than my others and like it's
这个阶段可能会比 我的其他人,就像
from Queensland I know that yeah so um
来自昆士兰州,我知道,是的,嗯,
I'm going to develop a liing for bananas
我要为香蕉编造一个谎言,
which I already do um
我已经这样做了,
sorry walk go for go for a walk I've
抱歉,散步,去散步,我
only just got out of bed it's okay
才刚刚起床,没关系,
walk's really important where would we
散步真的很重要 我们
be walking to that' be really
会走到哪里'真的很
important no terribly excited I thought
重要,不是非常兴奋我以为
you were talking about a cafe and a
你在谈论一家咖啡馆和
quiet little spot in the corner and an
角落里一个安静的小地方和一把
umbrella love
雨伞
to how you feeling Peter uh feeling
喜欢你的感觉彼得呃感觉
great Life's good is it staring up
很棒生活的美好就是它向
pushing up from the bed you know if
上看 从床上你知道
you're dizzy at all no I'm feeling quite
你是否感到头晕 不,我感觉
good thanks I'm not dizzy at
很好,谢谢,我一点也不头晕
all all right exciting time
好吧 激动人心的时间
turn to the
转向
left okay looking up looking
左边 好吧 抬头
forward how far do you want to go up to
向前看 你想走多远 到
the nursing desk uh yeah as far as you
护理台 呃是的,只要你
want to push me I'm I'm right I Reon
想推动我,我是,我是对的,我 Reon
okay at 48 I'll be 49 at the end of the
48 岁了,年底就 49 岁了,
year yeah I really would just like to
是的,如果成功的话,我真的很想去
travel if it was successful after a year
旅行 一年后,
I mean for the first year you know
我的意思是第一年,你知道要
constantly getting your blood monitored
不断地监测你的血液
and all that kind of thing but yeah I'd
以及诸如此类的事情,但是是的,我
love to have a full-time job I'd love to
很想有一份全职工作,我很想
get up at 7:00 every morning and go to
每天早上 7:00 起床然后去
work and come home at 5: and and have a
5点上班然后回家:还有一个
weekend I feel like I can breathe really
周末我觉得我可以深呼吸了,这
deep now
that it might be the last clearing you
可能是你最后一次离开
ever here from
me now might be the last
我现在可能是最后一次
cough cuz my little lungs are never
咳嗽,因为我的小肺永远
going to need to
cough oh my God I might be able to
咳,天哪,我也许可以
sing well I'm trying to tell prep my
唱得很好,我正试图告诉我,准备好我的
body I'm going okay little body you're
身体,我会没事的,小身体,你即将
about to be really cracked
被真正
open yeah man I'm [\h__\h]
裂开,是的,伙计,我他妈的
scared I just I Greatful for these
害怕,我只是我太棒了 对于
little L that I've got me so far
我到目前为止所拥有的这些小L,
in I guess they'll go in the bin
我想它们会进垃圾桶,
hello are you I'm
你好,我是
wash

oh I doing really good oh you know let
哦,我做得很好哦,你知道,让
on my bed no one's allowed to
我的床上没有人允许 为了
contaminate my bed I bought a chair for
污染我的床,我给你买了一把椅子,
you sweet cuz now I've got perfect
亲爱的,因为现在我已经有了完美的
Airways but I'm immun compromised so I
航空公司,但我的免疫力受到了损害,所以我
have to and everyone's like the nurses
必须这么做,每个人都像护士
said they've never seen someone before
说的那样,他们以前在医院里从未见过别人,
be in hospital everyone just come L on
每个人都来吧
their bed and piss them and cud them I'm
他们的床,尿他们,反刍他们,我
like Oh my whole life has been hospital
想哦,我的一生都在医院,
and that's how just just turned it into
这就是如何把它变成
home yeah just me yeah give us a deep
家是的,只​​有我,是的,让我们深度
break now hold day hold that
休息,现在坚持一天,是
yeah
的,
c not coughing
不要
up no kissing oh kissing you got you
咳嗽,不要接吻哦 亲吻你让你穿上我们
those pajamas we were admiring the other
前几天欣赏的睡衣
day I mean it's better look they've
我的意思是他们已经
taken I've got no more IV drugs so this
拿走了更好看我没有更多的静脉注射药物所以这
is a chest my last chest dra right GLE
是一个胸部我最后一个胸部 dra right GLE
GLE
GLE
yeah I don't really want making that GLE
是的,我真的不想做那个 GLE
to be

honest oh it's twisted I think it gets
实话,哦,它扭曲了,我想它
twisted and then it doesn't work
扭曲了,然后它可能不起作用哦,
probably oh that's okay now so yes so
现在没关系,所以是的,所以
just raining I'm hugging today I'm not
只是下雨我今天拥抱我不是在
kissing but I'm hugging I hugging
接吻,但我在拥抱我拥抱
hugging hug
拥抱
today when it's all settled down are you
今天拥抱一下,当一切都安定下来时,你会
going to try and find out who the donor
尝试找出捐赠者
is yeah I think understanding is that I
是谁吗?是的,我想理解是我
write a letter yeah and I write a letter
写一封信,是的,我写一封信,
and I say I say thank you and I say
我说我说谢谢,我说
um we can say thank you yeah and just
嗯,我们可以说谢谢 你是的,只是
just say thank you and talk about the
说谢谢,谈论
things that I can now do and when Mom
我现在可以做的事情,当妈妈
was wasted she was actually telling us
浪费了的时候,她实际上是在告诉我们,
that she wants to make them our family
她想让他们成为我们的家人,
and we can live near them and we can be
我们可以住在他们附近,我们可以和他们的
friends with their grandmas and everyone
奶奶做朋友 和
I don't know I've just hly I just feel
我不认识的每个人,我只是感到
really honored and that um want to have
非常荣幸,嗯,想要过上
a good life these L as well honor them
美好的生活,这些 L 也尊重他们,是
person yeah yourself your life and the
的,你自己,你的生活,以及使这一切
person who's made it possible yeah
成为可能的人,是的
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he said the toe because it's this middle
他说脚趾,因为这是中间
toe these two toes will go like that and
脚趾,这两个脚趾会像那样,
didn't notice that time she'll notice
没有注意到,到时候她会注意到的,
yeah but a stranger looking at her foot
是的,但是一个陌生人看着她的脚,
not do the
没有服用
antibiotics it could be weeks leading
抗生素,可能需要几周到
into months of antibiotic treatment is
几个月 抗生素治疗的
the outcom would probably be the
结果可能是
same um and of course the way I
相同的,当然,我
understood the way he said it was that
理解他所说的方式,
would obviously take a lot longer to get
显然需要更长的时间才能将
it back on to the
其恢复到
W um but then it's just better for
W 嗯,但这样对
yeah no one wants you to have this D
没有人来说会更好 希望你有这个 D
Cate but it's very scary happen bad it
Cate,但这非常可怕,发生
got so

quick so shall I go
太快了,所以我应该去
tell the bone comes to about here and at
告诉骨头来到这里,
the end of that there's some cartilage
最后有一些软骨
that will need to be nibbled away
需要被啃掉,
otherwise that just won't heal cuz it's
否则就不会 治愈吧,因为它
got no blood supply do we have your
没有血液供应,我们有你的
permission no it's not what you want
许可吗?不,这不是你想要的,
definely
绝对
not again kind of this is the thing with
不会再有,这是
the being on the list I don't I don't
名单上的人的事情,我没有,我
have many luxuries and this is one that
没有很多奢侈品,这是
I can't afford
我想要的 买不起
to it's water have to I don't I don't
水 必须 我不 我不想死
want to die I wouldn't be on the list if
如果我想死的话我就不会出现在名单上
I wanted to
die it's just a lot to take in your
20s having
20 多岁的时候要
amputation
截肢真是太痛苦了 是的,
yeah realistically what we to do let go
实际上我们该怎么办 放手去
in there remove that bit of infected
那里,去除脚趾周围受感染的
bone and tissue that's around your toe
骨头和组织,
all right bandage your foot up and you
好吧,用绷带包扎你的脚,然后你就
wake up back up okay we're going to try
醒来了,好吧,我们今天下午会尝试
and get this done this afternoon with

really really good pain killers stunning
非常非常好的止痛药来完成这件事,
best there is okay best there is she
那里最好的 没关系,最好的是她
doesn't want to feel a thing that's
不想感受到
totally fair
完全公平的事情,
enough okay there's a number of us who
好吧,我们中有很多人
can do this so it could be anyone you
可以做到这一点,所以可能是任何你
mind the
介意的人
I prayed that it would get better and we
我祈祷它会变得更好,我们
wouldn't be here today but also CU I do
不会' 今天不在这里,但我也在
work in hospital and what we see
医院工作,我们
generally is which I don't share with
通常看到的是我不与
Kate they start with a toe then the next
凯特分享的,他们从一个脚趾开始,然后是下一个
toe and then it's the foot and it's the
脚趾,然后是脚,这是
leg and it just sort of keeps going so
腿,它只是保持 所以
I'm I'm absolutely petrified that's
我绝对吓呆了,这就是将要
what's going to happen but I'm not
发生的事情,但我不会
telling her any of
告诉她,
that if she'd had the transplant 4 years
如果她在四年前接受移植手术,
ago when they put it on the list we
当他们把它列入名单时,我们
wouldn't be having an amputation
就不会进行截肢手术
today and I just think of all those
今天,我只想到所有那些
organs that are being buried and
被埋葬和
cremated that could be used and not just
火化的器官都可以使用,而不仅仅是
for cap for everybody they just seem so
为每个人提供帽子,它们看起来
pointless and such a
毫无意义,是一种
waste I'll have my little breakdown when
浪费,
I get into bed tonight as I always do
当我今晚上床睡觉时,我会有点崩溃。 总是
tend to not cry in front of her because
不会在她面前哭泣,因为
I want to stay strong come on we got to
我想保持坚强,来吧,我们要去
go to
market and that little Piggy's not
市场,那只小猪不会
coming back
回来了
dear donor family hi my name's Holly
亲爱的捐赠者家人,你好,我叫霍莉,
I've been wanting to write to you for so
我一直想给你写信
long but I thought I'd wait till now cuz
但我想我会等到现在,因为
tomorrow is 6 months to the day that you
明天是六个月后的那一天,你
made the incredible and beautiful choice
做出了令人难以置信和美丽的选择,
to give me your loved On's lungs I'm so
把你所爱的人的肺给了我,我很
sorry that your family member died you
抱歉你的家人去世了,你
can only imagine the great you must
只能想象你必须做的伟大
feel I also wanted to say thank you the
感觉我也想说谢谢你
biggest strong longest most amazing
最强大最长最令人惊奇的
thank you thank you for allowing me to
谢谢你谢谢你让我
continue to live and thank you for
继续生活并感谢你
allowing my friends and family to keep
让我的朋友和家人让
me
我在
around I've done so much in 6 months
身边我现在在6个月里做了很多事情
right now I'm over here in Victoria
我 我在维多利亚
visiting my daughter it was my care of a
探望我的女儿 这是我在移植后三个月的照顾
3 months post
transplant I haven't been out of fire in
我已经好几年没有因为
a pain for years and I flew here
疼痛而离开火了 我飞到这里
I haven't been out to go out in cold air
我已经好几年没有出去在寒冷的空气中了
for
years we're here up on a
我们在
mountain and I can breathe and I can
山上,我可以呼吸,我可以
walk up steps and I can even
走上台阶,我什至可以
sing and that's all thanks to
唱歌,这一切都归功于
you with every bit in my heart and every
你,我心里的每一点,
breath in my body thank you
我身体里的每一次呼吸,谢谢你
look at her little
看看她的小
hand

oh that's after her
哦,那是在她
operation she was just this perfect all
手术后,她是如此完美,
she had was that little bandage that
她所拥有的只是前面的那条小绷带,
went just down the front here and that
这是
was the only way you could tell that
你可以看出
she'd already given all her
她已经给出了所有
gifts here goes 8 the biggest jump ever
天赋的唯一方式,这里是8 她跳出了有史以来最大的跳跃,
she goes whoa je we W know what she was
哇哦,我们知道她在
going to do when she was 18 or 25 or 30
18、25 或 30 岁时会做什么,
but we know what she did as a 7 and 1/2
但我们知道她在 7 岁和 1/2 岁的时候做了什么
year old
jump yeah they good jumps weren't they
跳跃,是的,他们跳跃得很好,不是吗
yeah before the transplant doing the
是的,在移植前
dialysis 3 days a week meant that you
每周 3 天进行透析意味着你
couldn't go away on overnight is because
不能过夜,因为
I be at dialysis first thing in the
我早上第一件事就是透析
morning
nearly 2 years after the transplant I'm
移植后近 2 年我
feeling good I'm feeling healthy I've
感觉很好 我感觉很健康 我第
managed to go down and see snow for the
first time I went and climb Bluff null
一次成功地下去看到了雪 我去攀登了南部州的布拉夫零点 那
down in the state
south that's snow
是雪
brother I've also managed to ride across
兄弟 我还成功地骑着
Australia ride across the Cambra on my
bike and um see my daughter and my
自行车穿越了澳大利亚 骑着坎布拉 嗯,看看我的女儿和我的
grandkids I
孙子们,我
don't yeah it was just amazing that's
不知道,是的,这真是太棒了,这是
been the biggest change that free time
自由时间带来的最大变化,
and uh not being
呃,没有被
trapped especially cuz I did it for so
困住,特别是因为我
much of my life I reckon I don't think
一生中大部分时间都在这样做,我想我现在不认为
now I'm back to a normal life I think
我是这样了。 我回到了正常的生活 我想
now I've got a whole new
现在我已经有了一个全新的
life
生活
yay yay
耶耶
when I got sick I wrote the most
当我生病时我给
important people in my life a letter and
我生命中最重要的人写了一封信,
I've still got those
letters if you are reading this right
如果你的话我仍然收到这些信 现在正在读这篇文章,
now it means that I've been willed into
这意味着我已经愿意接受
surgery because some amazing donor
手术,因为一些了不起的捐赠者
family has decided to make the worst day
家庭决定让
of their life the best day of the lives
他们生命中最糟糕的一天成为我们生命中最美好的一天,
for us and has donated their organs of
并捐赠了
which I'm about to receive a kidney and
我即将捐献的器官 接受肾脏和
a pancreas
胰腺
I hope for my sake that I do make it out
我希望我能从
of this surgery although I am not
这次手术中成功出来,尽管我没有
confident that I will I want you to know
信心我会成功 我想让你知道
that I have lived a life full of love I
我过着充满爱的生活 我
have lived a life full of ambition and I
过着充满野心的生活 我的
have lived a life full of goals all
生活充满了目标,都是
because you told me I could hopefully
因为你告诉我,我希望
I'll see you in a couple of hours if not
我能在几个小时内见到你,如果没有的话,
it's okay I had fun love k
没关系,我玩得很开心,爱k
the ceremony tonight is a thank you and
今晚的仪式是对你的感谢和对你
an honoring of the people who've donated
的荣誉。 那些捐献
organs and their am so the families come
器官的人和他们的家人,所以他们的家人
to honor their loved ones and then
来纪念他们的亲人,还有
there's a few people who've had
一些接受过
transplants and surgeons who he say
移植手术的人和外科医生,他
thank you as well thank you so much you
也对他们说谢谢,非常感谢你们
know for giving all these people
为所有这些人提供了帮助
life the night of transplantation is a
生命 移植之夜 是一个
night of fireworks it's a night of
烟火之夜 这是一个
incredible Joy a night of incredible
令人难以置信的欢乐之夜 一个令人难以置信的
sadness soy only just turned 16 and on
悲伤之夜 soy 才刚满 16 岁,
the 22nd of December he came to an
12 月 22 日他来了
interception he he seems that he looked
拦截,他看起来似乎是
right but he didn't look left and
对的,但他看起来并不 离开了,
unfortunately he was uh involved a crash
不幸的是,在
with a transp us before we lost Danny
我们失去丹尼之前,他呃与我们的运输机发生了车祸,丹尼的
organ donation didn't enter our heads he
器官捐赠没有进入我们的头脑,他
suffered a fatal brain injury and on
遭受了致命的脑损伤,在
Christmas day he uh passed I also
圣诞节那天他呃去世了,我也
reflect on the donor Families how
反思了捐赠者的家庭
difficult it is to think about other
是多么困难
people during time when you're grieving
当你
for your loved ones
为你所爱的人悲伤时,想想其他人,
he was 16 you
他才16岁,你
know so the question is does this have
知道,所以问题是,这是否一定
to be a complete not a waste we we've
是完全的而不是浪费,我们
got to do something to get some sense of
必须做一些事情来了解
this tragedy for our family and for Loy
这场悲剧 我们的家人和洛伊,
we wanted Loy to be remembered we wanted
我们希望洛伊被人们铭记,我们希望
him to leave a legacy and he's done that
他留下遗产,而他
like a freeze dried rose you will never
就像冻干的玫瑰一样做到了这一点,你永远不会
be what you were what you were to me in
成为我记忆中的样子,
memory but if I listen to the dark
但如果我听黑暗的声音,
you'll Embrace Me Like a Star envelop
你' 会像星星一样拥抱我 包围
me envelop
我 包围
me if things get real for me down
我 如果事情对我来说变得真实 在
here promise to take me back to the tune
这里 承诺带我回到
we playing before you went
你走之前我们演奏的曲调
away and if I listen to you the sound of
如果我听着你的声音
wi sometimes I hear your
有时我会听到你的
smile and breathe your light yeah I
微笑并呼吸你的声音 光是的我
listen
聆听
to the sound of world
世界的声音
you're my my a one
你是我的一个
myy would you please welcome Claire
我的请你欢迎克莱尔·
Dugen and Holly
杜根和霍莉·
Ralph yeah I've got cystic fibrosis
拉尔夫是的我患有囊性纤维化,
which causes respiratory failure is the
导致呼吸衰竭是
most common cause of death and weeks in
最常见的死亡原因,几周内
hospital at a time yeah I'd spend weeks
一次住院 是的,我
in hospital at of time and the CF would
有时会在医院待上几周,CF 会
underpin everything I did every decision
支持我所做的每一个决定,
it's cuz any plan you make the drop of
因为你随便制定的任何计划
the hat would just be over and you're in
都会结束,而且你还要
hospital for a month also still have to
住院一个月 仍然需要
logistically plan for not getting a
为不进行移植做好后勤计划,
transplant cuz so many people don't like
因为很多人不喜欢
we had my daughter's 21st when she was
我们在我女儿 20 岁的时候接受了 21 岁的移植手术,
20 just to get it in and what sort of
而你做了什么样的
transplant did you have I had a double
移植手术,嗯,
lung um a year ago last week and so
一年前,去年我有一个双肺 一周,所以
actually last night was my anniversary
实际上昨晚是我的周年纪念
party hey there you go excellent
派对,嘿,你走了,非常
sorry to interrupt absolutely thank you
抱歉打断,绝对感谢
for your
你的
story um my brother donated for organs
故事,嗯,我哥哥去年一月捐赠了器官,
January last year um and I've been very
嗯,我
disconnected with it but I don't accept
对此非常不认同,但我不接受这
that he's gone he took his own life so
一点 他走了,他结束了自己的生命,所以
yeah I don't it's just I've been found
是的,我不知道,只是我发现
it really hard to connect to that yeah
很难联系到那个人,是的,
sure um but anyway it's it's a process
嗯,但无论如何,这是一个过程,
isn't it if if you just want to and that
不是吗,如果你只是想的话,这对
helps you connect or yeah I I just
你有帮助 连接或者是的,我真的
really happy
很高兴,
to so I'll leave you with that check out
所以我会给你留下这个,看看
my page let me
我的页面,让我
know kind of nice when you had your
知道当你有了你的
first CL yeah February the
第一个CL时,感觉很好,是的,2月
26th think that
26日,我认为那
you don't get
你不明白
that I'll be back in a second
我马上就回来,你叫
get what's your name my name is Kelly hi
什么名字,我叫凯莉,嗨,
Kelly nice to meet you and and your
凯莉,很高兴见到你和你的
brother
兄弟
Mark and who um we lost our sister
马克,我们失去了我们的妹妹
Catherine um she was up there on the
凯瑟琳,她之前就在屏幕上,
screen
before yeah and you were right your
是的,你是对的 你的
lungs are feel wor
肺感觉有
energy and she never smoked never drunk
能量,她从不抽烟,从不喝醉,
she she took care of your lungs
她照顾你的肺,
so you have the most beautiful life
所以你有最美丽的生活
promise give these
承诺,给这些
LS life I could we buried her
LS生命,我可以我们埋葬她
oh thank you I wasn't going to come up
哦,谢谢你,我不打算出现
and say anything but couldn't not I'm
并说任何话,但不能不,
sorry no I'm so glad I'm so glad weine
对不起,不,我很高兴,我很高兴,
mom
妈妈,
H oh thanks so much guys
哦,非常感谢大家,
all these little LS must love you so
所有这些小LS一定非常爱你,
much they must be like my
他们一定像我
mom be so happy this is my
妈妈一样,很高兴 我的
妈妈
so happy they going someone really need
很高兴他们去,有人真的需要是
yeah I really really did
的,我真的真的做到了
oh my God guys he GI me my life you g my
哦,我的上帝,他给了我我的生活,你们g我
mom my two
妈妈,我的两个
daughter thank you guys thank you guys
女儿,谢谢你们,非常感谢你们,
so
much we'll let you
我们会让你们
oh

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